Chances are if you’re a people pleaser you are indiscriminate about whom you care about. You do for others what you should be doing for yourself. As an accommodating and passive, non confrontational and easy-going person, hours are spent worrying about doing the right thing. Or worse; worried about the past. The past which is gone and can’t be changed. Insecure and terrified about hurting other people’s feelings and doing what others want is the go to behavior of people pleasers; affectionately know as doormats. (more…)
I’m so honored having Dr. Terry Segal with us providing professional insight for many problems recovering doormats face. She’ll be with us every Friday until the year’s end.
11/4 Click below and read how to handle unacceptable behavior in a healthy, empowering way http://enchantedjourney.club/unacceptable-behavior/?subscribe=success#blog_subscription-3
11/ 11 Click below and read about not taking responsibility for other peoples bad moods moodshttp://enchantedjourney.club/assuming-responsibility-others-bad-moods/
11/18 Click below and read about self blame and how to stop –http://enchantedjourney.club/self-blame/
12/2 Click below and read about apologizing. ALL recovering mats do this and many in excess. A must read for all visiting. – http://enchantedjourney.club/apologize/
12/9 Click below and read about how to deal with demeaning behavior. http://enchantedjourney.club/silent-demeaning-behavior/
12/16 Click below and get some guidance with confrontation and negating feelings http://enchantedjourney.club/confrontation-negating-feelings/