If you’re a too-nice-for-your-own-good people pleaser it’s feasible you may have a narcissist or two in your life. Or circling.  Feeling manipulated or controlled by a certain person, or group?

Take a closer look at who you’re investing your time in. Just because YOU don’t have a secret agenda for them, doesn’t mean they aren’t pulling your strings for self-serving needs that have nothing to do with caring about you.

They circle like vultures and prey upon the good hearted: They’re hiding in plain sight, but difficult to see until it’s too late.

Beware of the narcissist.  

Do you have any thoughts to share about this? All comments welcome in the comment section below. 

By |2018-01-16T01:27:03+00:00October 29th, 2016|Miscellaneous mattiness|2 Comments


  1. Julie May 18, 2018 at 12:15 AM - Reply

    Having experienced a relationship with quite a few some seriously a threat to my mental health and others much lower on the spectrum but over time capable of damage it’s so scary to think about. Anxiety inducing to know they lurk. I often wonder how people spot the red flags so quickly. I have a delayed reaction from cptsd.

    • Ivy Tobin May 18, 2018 at 9:49 AM - Reply

      Hi Julie, spotting red flags is difficult for many. You can gain further insights from the on-line workbook I wrote, and is only available here. Click the ‘book’ tab and then choose “Off the Floor.” I believe this interactive workbook will help you. Sending much love and many hugs. ❤️ Rose G. / Ivy T.

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