Most doormats care too much and are too nice.
Niceness is an underrated, unappreciated asset setting us apart from inconsiderate, self absorbed, narcissistic ‘A’ listers. We’re kind and loving and it’s our responsibility to embrace ourselves, unashamed of our former doormat status. Celebrating our good hearts, warm and giving nature and remaining un jaded is vital during our recovery from doormatism.
Niceness is our wonderful asset, but as recovering mats, must be tempered with caution.
I’ve experienced this and know its truth. Sad, but true.
Yes Dr. Segal. Sad, but true. Thanks so much for commenting today. ❤
why why why is this true???
Story of my life, even with my own family…
Hi Ariane, being ‘too nice’ is very common within our group. Try to set some boundaries, and remember you are worthy. Be nice to yourself FIRST. Always!
Niceness can be a disease.
Yes indeed. Approval addiction is a REAL addiction just like drug addiction. Thanks for shouting out Steve.
I too, have experienced this.
This is so sadly true!!!! we were bought up to be “nice” and now we are being “walked all over” by a generation who lacks integrity!