Most doormats care too much and are too nice.
Niceness is an underrated, unappreciated asset setting us apart from inconsiderate, self absorbed, narcissistic ‘A’ listers. We’re kind and loving and it’s our responsibility to embrace ourselves, unashamed of our former doormat status. Celebrating our good hearts, warm and giving nature and remaining un jaded is vital during our recovery from doormatism.
Niceness is our wonderful asset, but as recovering mats, must be tempered with caution.