It’s time to stop judging ourselves.

This quote by Sally Fields resonates with me because for so many years I had no idea of who I truly was. I was trying to please the whole world and be all things to all people.  Yes, it took a long time before I could stop judging myself,  stand in my own power. and just be.  Stop judging yourself.

By |2014-09-07T12:15:50+00:00September 7th, 2014|Miscellaneous mattiness|6 Comments


  1. Andrew September 7, 2014 at 5:32 PM - Reply

    So good you get victory ! but there is much more then just to be!

  2. ivytobin September 8, 2014 at 10:26 AM - Reply

    True Andrew. But accepting myself, AS IS, is the place I had to reach before I could even entertain the thought of being ‘much more.’ Sometimes, just being comfortable in my own skin is enough. Thanks for your comment.

  3. drterrysegal September 8, 2014 at 5:03 PM - Reply

    What a glorious awakening! Yay for you!!!

  4. Judy Smith September 29, 2014 at 12:29 PM - Reply

    For most of us, it takes a lot of living, a lot of losing, a lot of loving to wake up to how awesome we are. Better late than never, and second-guessing is a waste of energy when we could be having fun instead!

    • ivytobin September 29, 2014 at 4:35 PM - Reply

      Right on Judy! Thanks so much for commenting. <3

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